Archive for the 'Advice' Category



On Flirting… 44 Comments

Img Source Anti-Flirt collection is a name of a clothing brand. But in the 1920, there was a women organization called anti-flirt club that wanted to stop men whistling from their cars. Women are complicated human beings and I have been getting conflicting signals. Thus I don’t know what is right or wrong? I have [...]

perceptive moments 15 Comments

photo nyc china town by nolawi My uncle told me this from his own personal experience of an remarkable man. Just like the story of my professor’s father in law, I find it very interesting and keep retelling it over and over. Last week, I was in Chicago for a week, I met lots of [...]

Works in Africa 20 Comments

One of the most popular phrases, If it works in Africa, it will work anywhere. The statement I am quite familiar with was recently harked back by one of the most popular African bloggers is Hash aka Erik Hersman of White African who actually grew up in Kenya & Sudan. I think this statement as [...]

State of Mind 35 Comments

Besides being a popular phrase; ‘state of mind’ is the perspective on which you look at situations. Yes my definition because I was not able to find my application of the phrase online being described. Objects in mirror are closer than they appear” I love that phrase because perception is not reality; and reality is [...]

for granted 124 Comments

I struggle with this; being complacent is one of those things that come with consistency in our lives. Stability, resilience & security are some of the things we strive for as we get older. In reality though in our lives —although stable with basic necessities — we are dealing with problems that come and go; [...]