Archive for the 'Dating' Category



Love at 1st Sight? 108 Comments

After 10 years of living in the United States, I returned to Addis Ababa to be the best man on my best friend's (Girma's) wedding, but only to find out there were missing things and things that mattered the most and weighed heavily on my democratized soul. Addis Ababa had changed quite a bit since [...]

Whoop It Up-DC! 74 Comments

I have been coming to DC to 'Party' Ethiopian style! Labor Day weekend, Thanksgiving weekend, Memorial Day weekend, beqa all the long weekends! People from all over the States gather and Party like its 1999! Not to mention the New Years party, the American and the Ethiopian, two Christmas', two Easter’s blah blah. You get the [...]

Dear Abesha Wondoch 586 Comments

I’ve taken notice on this here blog a lot of you Abesha wondoch are talking about what you want in an Abesha set and I think it’s time for us setoch to talk about what we look for in a man. I once heard what a man wants is, Carmen Electra in the bedroom, Julia [...]

Zilch Moonlighting! 273 Comments

No, I am not talking about the TV series! I was finishing up a job interview; I was thinking it went very well, that is till they dropped the bomb shell. Last thing, you would also have to sign on the moonlighting clause." I had an inkling, on what he was talking about, and I [...]

The thin __ b/n honesty & deceit 45 Comments

Right out of high school, many moons ago, I joined a group of my friends on a trip to the wonderful city of Carmel, California with white sand beaches and beautiful homes for a relaxing time – so I thought. Who knew such a wonderfully planned trip could turn disastrous because of AN honesty ISSUE! [...]