Archive for the 'Dating' Category



Your Own Lies 46 Comments

We rationalize, and rationalize our actions. I pride myself in telling the truth,…” One would say and then just lessen the blow to ones integrity. I am sure I am guilty as well, I live my life in a way I am comfortable, but I know there are things in my life I have to [...]

asmeChina laKi 126 Comments

No I’m not talking about importing and exporting items; I’m actually talking about the phenomenon in North America where the Ethiopian American man goes home and ‘imports’ himself a wife. People say, “He’s a fool! Just give it sometime she’s going to leave him.” And sure enough it is true these relationships don’t often work. [...]

I am not a slut! 85 Comments

I am not a slut!‘ Things woman say to rationalize certain actions. Yes, there are double standards. Males can sleep around and boost their machismo while woman who do the same thing are considered to be degrading their femininity. I love sex, why can’t I enjoy it freely?” She said to me, while trying to [...]

A Time Watch Flirt 41 Comments

I have to wear a watch at all times. If I am not, I feel nervous, uncomfortable and naked. It maybe because I really respect time; as the saying goes ‘time is money” and I have to spend it constructively. Yes, I love to spend Sundays in bed, maybe make an egg bacon & cheese [...]

Setochu 104 Comments

What they say? They are in my age range; they are from 26 to 31ish. They are educated, meaning atleast four years of college if not more. They are single, they make decent amount of cash! They are in most cases emotionally independent! They live in a large city, work in a large corporation! They [...]