Comments on: bamboozled!

By: jambroos

jambroos — Fri, 27 Aug 2010 20:02:37 +0000

One question, if you are not looking for a GF or a serious relationship why make a big fuss about itit?

By: Haben Woldu

Haben Woldu — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 20:32:45 +0000

I used to really enjoy reading the blogs on bernos but I am very disappointed in the content and writing of current blogs. It’s like a restaurant that has a new owner. Please try to maintain the originality and creativity that garnered you a huge fan base.

By: Hiwi

Hiwi — Thu, 22 Jul 2010 15:31:50 +0000

always trust yr gut. it slips me who it was but sb once said what we refer to as our 6th sense is the ‘God in us’ & i believe that.

By: Gennet

Gennet — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 15:10:59 +0000

my translation to ‘kostenlose Selbstbehandlung = free of charge selftreatment (is that correct English? Hope it makes sense.

By: Nolawi

Nolawi — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 14:41:59 +0000

@ Kidist:
she has apologized and told me that it was not intentional… so she was just oblivious and inconsiderate…

By: Kidist

Kidist — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 01:25:13 +0000

Damn man, exactly what did she do to set you up in JUST ONE WEEK and make you feel this way????????? What was the gain for her to do so?? Con artists rob you of your wealth, just what did she take from you that has you feeling this way???? Either way, it is good that you’re over it and stay away from tricksters like that……..

By: nolawi

nolawi — Sun, 11 Jul 2010 07:52:41 +0000

@ Gennet:
Free Self
according to Google?

By: endalc

endalc — Sat, 10 Jul 2010 09:00:41 +0000

.great writer .nolawi.. all there . until. u .conteinu..you.have .meny speak with your several.firends . u have .good aidea . how you nows . to meit .by frequently opjecet .shear to ever bedy gather to yourself and make it .good thing .from there . you see miss . nolawi .but after .long wite .with me .i went to see .your pictuer .full albem . personal. hestory because i admair .you .no some one speed tailent writer . we learn too much thing word for you

By: Gennet

Gennet — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 21:51:35 +0000

Dear Nolawi,

the main thing ‘your’e over it’, period- actually no further discussions/comments needed-. You had, as we say in Europe your ‘kostenlose Selbstbehandlung’. Great!

By: Nolawi

Nolawi — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 19:59:26 +0000

I am tired of Gladwell being the know it all for everything!

By: tsedey

tsedey — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 20:55:52 +0000

..to piggy back on what Dinich has said… women tend to take their sixth sense more seriously than men do… so men fall into traps easier than women.. how about that for an other rule of thumb. Ha!

By: Nolawi

Nolawi — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 19:19:01 +0000

ok people once i wrote this i feel so much better… its not like i was looking for GF or something… just got lied too and not after the fact i feel like i made it a big deal.. it was but i am over it!

By: Dinich

Dinich — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 18:30:03 +0000

Michelle,

I am not against books but the major problem with books on these topics is that you kind of have to be on the same wave length as the author, which is rare. As a result most readers tend to take formulas from books instead of lessons. That complicates things further….when you try to understand it at somebody else’s level.

Rule of thumb: Follow ur guts. guts r smarter than we think. Unfortunately, we ignore them when we see the charm.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 17:42:48 +0000

Not everyone is good at figuring out people at first sight. However, we can all improve our ability to make the right interpretation of our gut feelings. There are several books written on “thin-slicing” but I highly suggest you read Blink by Malcolm Gladwell so you don’t get played next time:)

By: Keni

Keni — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 15:39:27 +0000

My philosophy is better to be played than live with the knowledge of you hurting someone else. I can live better knowing that I was hurt cause I was naive and trusting than live with the agony that I hurt someone or abused their trust. So I actually think you in a better situation that the Ms player wannabe chicka that missed out. I know I dont have a lot of supporters but if you had to choice between being a player or your honest trusting 3-times burned Nolawiye.. what would you choose?

By: kiki

kiki — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 15:58:26 +0000

Sorry Noli it sucks being played. But if this is only the third time it has happened to you consider yourself lucky