Comments on: State of Mind

By: datdude

datdude — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 06:50:40 +0000

“As a man thinks so is he” -King Solomon

By: Mah

Mah — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 20:16:52 +0000

Nolawi-welcome to my world. As a psychologist this is exactly what I help people do on a daily basis.

You may have heard a PBS guy named Wayne Dyer (sp?) put it this way:

“If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”

By: Tasewu

Tasewu — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 15:35:17 +0000

so what does it meann by being in a good state of mind….anybody?

By: Nolawi

Nolawi — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 19:40:30 +0000

oh i c!

By: ep

ep — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 18:59:38 +0000

ooops …my bad typo ..and browser spell checker

delusional perspective

it totally took me out of context, i guess

By: nolawi

nolawi — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 18:39:48 +0000

BesaQ EP BesaQ

I think, for me, “state of mind” is delusional persecution

that is very funny..but i don’t think it has anything to do religion…

By: ep

ep — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 17:52:37 +0000

I am totally confused here…

In your example, are you saying that, if someone trying to hurt you is “just perspective” or “state of mind” …. or the way you react for the hurting action is “state of mind”… ??

I hear some religious sects using this word like “hell” and “heaven” is “state of mind”… I hear motivational speakers, using it a lot..

I think, for me, “state of mind” is delusional persecution

By: SaraA

SaraA — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:55:57 +0000

Very nice article….but u saying that u should deal better with it because it’s a fact (last paragraph)…that’s you thinking with your head. Sometimes in life we tend to also think with our heart only and that’s when we get hurt/disappointed etc…and we can’t deal with the fact.

I’ve learned that using your head to deal with situations make things a whole lot easier.

By: Nolawi

Nolawi — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 17:30:17 +0000

I don’t understand the question? isn’t perception & reality the whole article?

By: Pride

Pride — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:50:37 +0000

I agree perception is not really. People might perceive you a certain way based on your outward appearance, the reality might be far different when you dig deeper. Its a fine line between perception and reality

Nolawi, how the whole article ties in to the subject matter?

By: Dinich

Dinich — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:02:40 +0000

Chuni,

I feel ya…

By: tpeace

tpeace — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:04:10 +0000

sometimes i think apathy and boredom run a similar track…and a lot of times they run into the emptiness…

maybe what I’m saying makes no sense…but well…

By: chuni

chuni — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 08:02:27 +0000

It’s a brilliant idea and it works…I don’t get mad or angry for months at a time. Things just don’t bother me much. If i can change the situation i’ll act on it, if not I waste no time moving on. But after years of practice, I feel like i’m loosing my passion for things. i guess too much of a good thing is bad for you *shrugs*

By: kelli

kelli — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:40:45 +0000

Excellant post…and I am totally with you on this. I don’t know about Chachata’s comment about the American concept statement, (can we say generalization?) but otherwise I agree. It is perfectly natural to react to situations in life as you did. I don’t think you should feel bad either about your process and way of dealing with the news. What builds character and reveals your spirit to the people around you is how you react, embrace, and deal with the news…and LIVE.

Btw…the picture is gorgeous. ;0)

By: sewit

sewit — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 18:33:15 +0000

Nolawi: Touché

By: Alazhar

Alazhar — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 18:25:54 +0000

what the…@ #6!

By: Nolawi

Nolawi — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 18:03:54 +0000

all right endalc whatever you are saying I appreciate you!

By: endalc

endalc — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 12:58:33 +0000

than you about for this your .state maind. .waw this is verey uniqe .tip for espeical friends , so i have memorey . i was play .with my friends .

By: tpeace

tpeace — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 03:06:12 +0000

speaking of what chachata was talkin bout:
http://www.senduq.com/2009/dark-spirits/

and they call the plug shameless for what?

hehe

By: Nolawi

Nolawi — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 23:37:07 +0000

the pic is not hdr

and i did some post production on it.. but its not..

also any camera with a tripod can do hdr!

By: chachata

chachata — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 22:45:26 +0000

I think it’s an American concept to think that one should never be unhappy. I’m not saying you should seek thinks to make you dissatisfied, but you can’t gloss over negatives simply because you can’t change the current state of things and pretend like all’s dandy. Deal with things and move on.

Also that pic is an HDR … so of course the camera matters :-p

By: Nolawi

Nolawi — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 21:42:56 +0000

that picture is not me.. and the camera doesn't matter

By: sewit

sewit — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 21:22:46 +0000

That picture is fantastic. What kind of camera do you use?