once again i outdid yourself…

Ethiofused this is my first time reading this word.

Does is mean a confused Ethiopian man or woman? do ppl use the term often? I am not sure?
I would like to know more about ethiofused.

Thank you.

Thanks Bernos – for making me think less of our community.

Before somebody jumps to make a feeble attempt to use my own argument at me, I mean the article and the many disappointing responses that followed which were devoid of reason.

Maybe one should look at Bernos as a venting ground than a place of discussion, because there are some seriously deluded angry people out here.

secondly, “wary about getting involved with fellow country man”
what the hell is wrong with you? isn’t your father and your brother your fellow country man….puhlease excuse you… and you need to get over yourself…[/quote]

It is very convenient to foreget that this article, as well as the concept of ‘ethofusion’, has been about generalizing and bashing Ethiopian women en masse. I guess it didn’t strike a chord with the author and Nolawi as it was directed at the other gender, and clearly as these two people also don’t have mothers nor sisters(per Nalawi’s argument).

Now it all makes sense. Thanks Bernos – for making me think less of our community. There is something very rotten about this article.

Women don’t hate men this much without reason.

ABEBA, do you know how to READ???? srsly do u??
You just seem “reply” happy whether you’re making sense or not. First of all, I don’t know if there’s another Engenda, this is my first time ever posting so where in your crazy head are you seeing “most” of my “scary” comments? And newsflash, I’m a girl.

On the other hand, looking at “most” of your comments………….hahahaha

I’ll leave that an open sentence, I’m sure a couple of ppl would love to finish that up, anyone???? celebr….??:):)

You are on a roll with the labeling today aren’t you? What are you a psychologist in training? I could tell you what you sound like but then that would be mirroring your behavior now wouldn’t it? Since you’re begging for it, I think you are one little girl who has issues with men and life in general. You seem bitter and in dire need for attention. I say this because you seem to have everyone figured out but yourself. So you wanna name call then do so but remember there are plenty of names to go around and you’re not immune or soooo special to be left out.

Nolawiye says “exuse you and get over yourself”
You come back with, “you’re a jerk, defensive, and short tempered”

I say “get over yourself and don’t make ASSumptions”
You come back with “got a battered woman syndrome, submissive”

You are a joke! Go read a book on personality disorders and maybe you’ll learn more about yourself. See now I’m stooping down to your level just to make my point so you can understand.

Your attitude is the reason why many Abesha men complain about Abesha women.

When she puts down her countrymen it doesn’t exclude the men in her family or her friends. She has created an assumption that truly makes an ass out of what she said and now you follow in her footsteps (are you two related?)

It is wrong to label Nolawiyen, “short tempered” just because he stated his opinion. You seem to be dipping your nose where it doesn’t belong but I’m not placing a label on you now am I?

secondly, “wary about getting involved with fellow country man”
what the hell is wrong with you? isn’t your father and your brother your fellow country man….puhlease excuse you… and you need to get over yourself…

MWC I say you change your nick to LLMWC. Love it!

Have to say it, mts, mts, mts…..is my response to your comments. But hey that’s what it’s all about everyone sharing their ideas, thoughts, experiences. So please give us your thoughts of the topic. mts.

Fikirte, bruk ke’WeGebe Gobded biye.. MesGanayen fessess ..lenantew. thanks for the compliment.

Fikirtye, bruk homey, now since “Have to say it” sounds a mellow person according to her (post #84), can we also be mellow and say to her…homey..sorry for being harsh on you? ..please if in deed “LLMWC” has some iota of truth…lene sitilu..engidiyaw ..

Have to say it: There is a lot to say about our corner of the world, and us, as a people. Maybe you were one of those fortunate and protected ones and didn’t see the magnitude of suffering that we, a big portion of your citizens, even, as children boys/girls, had to go thru and are still going thru. so those experiences FLASHBACK and force us to write even looooong when you hear people talking about it. sharing is good, so others be informed. It may be a rude awakening of their conscious but it helps seeing things realistically.

Can you believe in a society, how dare, the few, destroy the sense of us, our dignity, our being. Truly, if you are an Addis kid, roamed Addis as you grew up, like me, and saw it from the angle i saw it, that would have given you the entire picture of as to why i admire & support the UNDERDOG: the ordinary, and women. against immeasureable cruelty & neglect, they walk with unbreakable spirit and that just captivates my heart.

I am not sincerely comment to please/anger any one on this blog. i don’t know anyone in person. But, my comments are just plain matter-of-fact, and share and reflect what i have seen and experienced first hand in our society and the world at large. so, that is that. and of course challenge others to help me see their point-of-view, or VzVz.

may you all have a mellow Weekend!