As for my forbidden love issue, girl… I don’t know where to start It was an unexpected rendezvous, the feelings were crazy and none like any other, unsure of what was happening but very glad it did, unfortunately now it seems over
Maybe someday, I will tell you all about it over some good martini… possibly over a couple of them nice grey goose martinis.
But for now, thanks for that suggested song by Akon… I just checked it out online and it was not bad at all, good selection!

Chelema Reply to #20, “What does your bf got to say about that?” He’s sitting right here…what? yeah, he said nothing honey. Were you trying to push my buttons because it worked. Me answer to him you got to be joking or something!

Yihesgud, Sweety don’t apologize to me I relate to an AA from Emory U the same way I relate to one from the hood. I don’t discriminate and neither do they.

Shanti, What’s up with the forbidden love? Which direction of forbidden are you coasting on girl, you know you gots to make it clear cause I’m getting worried about you hahahahah. Seriously, check out the song “Don’t matter” by Akon really nice for the forbidden loves.

I simply couldn’t stop thinking about this guy. He looked so serious and kurategna …

LOL, great story Kokebina. There’s so much material here Nol, you could start a whole new blog site solely on Missed Rendez-vous!

When I was still in Addis about 12 years ago, I saw this handsome Gods’ creation in front of Lycee’s GIBI. Although, I belonged to another school, I used go to there to ride home with my cousins. You see, I made a pact not to date just few weeks back. Oh well, I wasn’t going to let this one pass me. I’m soooo into mixed guys/mainly Ethiopian-European/. This guy was for sure my cup of macchiato. I told my cousins about my crash, and they went crazy on me. I simply couldn’t stop thinking about this guy. He looked so serious and kurategna waiting for his siblings in his car. He always parked around the back, but the girls would still make sure he saw them by being loud or doing other things. I didn’t have it in me to walk across and talk to him in my burgundy uniform. I just didn’t want to stand out. Weeks had gone by and I don’t see this guy anywhere in town; not in clubs, pastries, bars, pubs. I just kept on looking out-but my guy never showed. One day, one of my boys came home from campus and we went out for a walk. I saw my guy driving by and I kinda jumped. My friend couldn’t help to notice. He politely asked if I knew the person in the car. I answered “No, but I want to”. He said who him, I said yeah him. He told me his name and said they took the same class @ 4 killo last year. I was sooo happy just knowing his name. The weekend after, I walked into a packed IBEX club and I saw him. My heart skipped a beat…I took my hands off my cousin as quickly as I could, walked straight up to him and said his name. He turned around and asked “where do I know you?” I just said “too loud and couldn’t hear”, so we went out side. He was my boyfriend for 7 amazing months until I left Ethiopia. I saw him every single day for 7 months. It was a beautiful life experience. I’m now married to a great guy but I still think about him at times.

Now, if you had a topic about “forbidden love” then…

I wanna see Nolawi write, at one point, he couldnt be with a girl because she just didnt like him. Then I’ll sit corrected.

engideh… thank you… I will correct you one day!

Girls and women like men like you, have enough swetness without being soppy, and you sound kind and giving to women, you are creative and have a good sense of humour, things girls like maybe an oracle will know as to why you have no girlfriends yet.

Chelema

On your advice to Nolaw: isnt once enough to make your point? once may be justified, but the second and the third time only show how affected, you would be, by a girl who puts the phone down on you and indirectly show traits of your character if she is watching and listening properly to it ,the inability to take rejection, ego, pride.

I feel deeply about a dude i’ve seen at college
Well Well i’ve never said a word except wazzup at times.
But he is the best dude i’ve seen. He is Black with a smooth white smile. He melts my heart. I just need to open up and say my mind but i just can’t i just shake everything i want to say something. He is so wonderful. He has the best male body i’ve seen in ages. He must be into sports. Well to me he’s perfect 10!! Besides his body he has this wonderful manly man personality. Wow I’m so crazy in love. i’m now trying to get my nerves together and go for it. I don’t care if he is single or not. He will be mine one day. Peace out

Nolawi- Let me tell you I have a sis (a complete package: beautiful, successful, smart and confident) who is single for one reason and one reason only: She tells me she is tired of guys who are fake and want to play the game and in the process come out looking like they lack confidence. She says she does not have the time or energy to try to psychoanalyze them.

ok if you think its a good match and your sis is in the DC area… I will give it a shot… why the heck not?:)

…that was, “mann neng tilaleh?”….as in “what do u call yourself?”…to ‘mastekakel’…as in ‘to straighten you out’…

But now u say u r a wild cat, it’s going to take the ‘poor her’ longer to ‘mastekakel’ you. have a wonderful life!