I think chicks are all the same. They just want to have fun; confident, independent and proud goes a long way, for both guys and chicks.

I will tell you what I know for sure though. From my own experience, I have never dated anyone just to date them (habesha or not). I love Ethiopian guys but I don’t like how some of them feel entitled to ask me out just because I am habesha. We are all individuals, we have interests and different personalities. If I am just a habesha girl to you, and that’s the only reason you would want to talk to me; I would say no thank you. There is more to us than our ethnicity. Try to get to know us as individuals and not just as a potential mate.

P.S. Good job on this Nolawi, five years later people are still talking this

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It makes me crazy when thinking that i am going to die with out inviting a woman for a dinner. I gat a difficulty while talking to a girl. And i am expecting that a girl gona ask me out. waw plz hit me with a solution. I would like it if it comes from girls. hope to here from there.

You know bytch, the type like you who so used to the white man and the black approach are the one who give a bad name to the other Ethiopian women, who appreciate their country men.

First off, sorry, I don’t think any decent Ethiopian man would like to hook up with you, let alone mess with the type of you who is a damaged goods of no value. So think what you are saying, before you shit from both side. LAMO

I can NOT speak about the difficulties in dating DC born or raised Ethiopian women, Never met one from there. I have dated more than a few both in Ethiopia and some who worked in other countries outside of the States. Before I met my now wife(Ethiopian), I am African American, I never had a problem with actually getting a date with a Ethiopian woman or any other African woman for that matter. Although I must admit that the Ethiopian women I have experience with were surprisingly strong minded, very hip to the game, and could basically smell BS from 10 miles away. Most, I have met & dated were extremely private when it came to sharing personal info about themselves, their family and friends…..Not really defensive, more like,,,,,,overly reserved.

Ethiopian women carry around a lot of pride, I like that! Someone wrote in an earlier post about his wife, after ten years of marriage, and three kids being even better than she ever was, I think it’s true.

My wife and I argue, who doesn’t!! When she says; I will tell you something, and then lays her opinion out, I know she is right. My way is to say “I am sorry” when I am wrong, She, on the other hand will not, at least not with words, but I hear it just the same through her actions of cooking me my favorite meal the next day, taking me out to do something she knows I really love, etc. It used to get to me until I realized that actions speaks louder than words anyway, so except her way of giving a sincere “sorry” the same as she excepts mine.

Just about the only thing my wife demands is that (1) I keep my **** in my pants, (2) I bring my *** home at night, (3) I do not disrespect her or bring shame upon her or her family, and (4) Be my own man. In return, your getting a beautiful wife who hates divorce, looks out for your best interest, will follow your financial plan….if it’s not a foolish one, provides the cleaniest, most well kept home, will overly feed you…so go ahead and renew that gym membership! And who will learn and provide exactly what you like in the bedroom.

Look, for those guys out there who are looking for an Ethiopian woman, you better ask yourself if its really what you want and for what reason(s), because they are extremely passionate about their perception of WHOLE love. If so, then spend as much quality time as you can getting to know Ethiopians, their amazing history, and beautiful culture. Sample various food dishes, believe me, your gf or wife will be serving you Ethiopian foods throughout the week. If your living in the States, seek out Ethiopian Americans who are willing to teach you some words in Amharic, then take a trip to Ethiopia. Remove dating an Ethiopian from your mind, this way you can just relax and enjoy the full experience of something new. You never know, you could be vacationing in Ethiopia and just around the corner, you unexpectedly meet a beautiful Ethiopian woman or even one of some other nationality that blows your mind away.

PEACE…..

Tell you what, i will manage to code this chick and debug her as i wish .

I am the real Guru.

check this website: http://ethiopiangirls.net … full of pictures of beautiful ethiopian girls. no doubt they are the most beautiful women in the world!

btw i am kenyan, and am currently in Nairobi
And so it happened that yesterday , i met this Ethiopian gal here in Nairobi, she was going to see her boyfriend who is a student of where i used to school(University of course)

As we talked, i told her of my wishes to date an ethiopian gal, she told me she cant hook me up/introduce me to some of her ethiopian girls here in Kenya who are her friends.But she told me she cant promise, .

So i got her number.. wow!! what a sunday,.The lady was astonishly beautiful, I asked her about Haile Selaise(the only thing i know abt Ethiopia..duh..)

So my questions to you is..

Since this gorgeous lady i met was going to see her boyfriend. do i ask her out?

Or how do i go about it to get her introduce me to some of her Ethiopian gal friends here in Kenya,.??

What do i need to know about this ladies from Ethiopia..so that my advances don’t hit a wall.

I must say however, that the reason am thinking of dating an Ethiopian girl is purely coz they look beautiful, also i want the thril i would get to date an Ethiopian girl.. if things work then,…..well who knows…

But my concern is ,, how do i play my games right so that i get this Ethiopian girls to be my friends,,, ?? or how do i handle this girl i met yesterday to make sure she introduces me to her friends…

There are some men, who go back and import them. From my close observation, it has a very tragic, since the expectation and and the frame of reference are quite different. My suggestion is, why don’t you look for other African ladies, rather than trying to hook up with these women.